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Will we ever find work life balance while we’re juggling many balls?

I juggle a lot —  marriage, children, work, volunteering, friends. It's a choice. I know that one day, I
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won't have much to juggle and frankly, that scares me. But sometimes, I'm juggling so much, that I feel like I'm doing nothing right.

I wonder how many other people feel that way….

I just read a blog post by Luly B that hit right on point. She writes: "Sorry, I am not a professional juggler! Sometimes, I am going to say no to a play date for my kids. I am going to say no to a happy hour networker. I am going to sign up to bring the “easy” stuff at school. And sometimes, I will say “I can’t do that right now.” I don’t care to be seen as the amazing juggler of fifteen balls. I don’t need a gold star on my chest. I am not going on some special honor roll. I just want peace. I just want to be happy."

If you stopped juggling as much and set some of the balls down, what would happen? Would you be happier? I don't think I would be.

Lately, I've realized that I enjoy juggling. If I were to sit in the audience and watch someone else performing, I'd be bored. I want to participate. I'm addicted to juggling. I need to feel the high of accomplishing many things at the same time. It makes me happy.

That doesn't mean I need to juggle 10 balls. I just need to find the right amount and figure out when to put one ball down to pick up another so I can feel like I'm getting it right more often.

Do you need to have many balls in the air to feel good about yourself? Are you willing to try setting one of the balls down to find more balance?

The Work/Life Balancing Act

Low Wage Workers struggle in many ways you can’t imagine

Ashley Maddox is polite and hard working. She wants a good life for her son, just like all the rest of us working parents. But if you're a salaried worker, you might find it interesting to hear what Ashley's life is like….

Times are tough for low-wage workers

For many workers, basics such as fair pay and sick time can be elusive, and many are beginning to speak up.

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Ashley Maddox hugs her son, Miguel Romero III,  who will be 2 in December, n her Little Havana apartment before leaving for work.
        Ashley Maddox hugs her son, Miguel Romero III,  who will be 2 in December, n her Little Havana apartment before leaving for work.    

    MARICE COHN BAND    /    MIAMI HERALD STAFF 

By Cindy Krischer Goodman

balancegal@gmail.com

            Ashley Maddox boards a bus and heads to work at a South Beach restaurant, a chore that can take up to 1 ½ hours. Once she arrives, she writes up orders, serves food and clears tables. Some days she brings home just $ 20, other days more. When her shift ends, the single mom heads back home on the bus to her toddler son, who she leaves in the care of his grandma or aunt, or a friend.

Each week, Maddox’s schedule changes, making a more stable child-care arrangement challenging. Whether she has a cough, cold or fever, Maddox still gets on the bus and goes to work. “I don’t get any sick days or benefits and I need my job.”

Last week, when low-wage workers gathered to show support for a proposed new paid sick leave law in Miami-Dade County, Maddox was there with her son on her hip. At 27, Maddox has had a series of low-paying jobs serving food. She’s been struggling to stay well and hold onto her current job for about a year.     

      We see our presidential candidates courting the woman’s vote and hear them debate job growth, flexibility, fair pay and even paid sick leave. But for Maddox and other low-wage workers, these issues are not about work-life balance or fairness or politics: They are about survival. Every benefit or new right in the workplace makes a giant difference in whether they can eat dinner, afford electricity, clothe their child or pay rent.

For these workers, the last few years have been particularly tough. As businesses have struggled to stay afloat, low-wage workers increasingly have endured the consequences. Many have had their hours cut and sometimes are even forced to work off the clock. Others have been stiffed out of pay when businesses abruptly closed. And, some have been subjected to bosses who fire them for taking a day off to care for a sick child or family member.

“If you’re a low-wage worker, the deck is stacked against you,” says Noah Warman, a labor lawyer with Sugarman & Susskind in Coral Gables. “Employers want your muscle, not your brain, and you become a cost of doing business. If a business needs to cut corners, this is where they do it.”

Low-wage workers like Maddox are the people who serve us meals, clean our hotel rooms, ring up our purchases and care for our kids or our parents. Increasingly, they are more of the population: During the recovery, most of the employment gains have been concentrated in lower-wage occupations, which grew almost three times as fast as mid-wage and higher-wage occupations, a new National Employment Law Project (NELP) report shows. These workers typically earn less than $ 13 an hour and lack benefits or flexibility.

 

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Read more here: http://www.miamiherald.com/2012/10/23/3064020/times-are-tough-for-low-wage-workers.html#storylink=cpy

The Work/Life Balancing Act